High Gear; Orgasmic foreplay

Now we are going to step it up a notch and get into oral sex for completion of an orgasm, all of the previous techniques I have talked about will get your lady to the point where she is ready to experience penetration. I will always recommend using your fingers internally before anything else, using your fingers internally whilst using the techniques I’m going to tell you about with your tongue will bring your lady very close to orgasm and if not, will certainly get her totally ready for penetration with your cock. 

I’m going to work from the lowest intensity techniques to the ones that are almost certain to bring your woman to orgasm. I’m also going to touch on how to try and make your woman squirt in your mouth, this will almost certainly take a few attempts and involves her understanding and cooperation before-hand so bear that in mind if this is your goal. 

The first technique is to use one set of fingers on her clitoris, with the bump of her clitoris in between the crease of your index finger and middle finger, your woman should be nicely heated now so the 1” diameter circles aren’t as important, but keeping her clit in that little crease certainly is, if you lose your place, quickly slide your middle finger to the entrance of her vagina and trace up until you find the bump again. Move your fingers fairly vigorously, still in circles, whilst doing this use your tinge to lick around where you are moving your fingers, get your face nice and close to her pussy, lick all around her outer labia, like you are licking all that ice cream.

Whilst you are doing this, use your other hand, both index and middle finger, or middle and ring finger, and hook upwards inside of her whilst penetrating, a gentle hook, similar curvature to the position your fingers make when they are placed on a keyboard to type. 

You will now be deep enough insider of her to feel her g-spot, it will feel like a ridged, spongey, firm lump, usually about the size of half an egg, you want to stoke it whilst you move in and out of her, stroke all of it, spread your fingers occasionally so you hit the sides of her g-spot, if you are aiming for a clitoral orgasm don’t press TOO hard as this will take the stimulation away from her clitoris and to her g-spot. 

You can vary this technique by loosening the hook shape in your fingers and moving your tongue down to the entrance of her vagina, altering the penetration between your fingers and your tongue, this will give your penetrative fingers a rest and allow you to use more flat pressure with your fingers that are on her clitoris by gently pressing the entire length of your fingers against her pussy. 

The next technique is the one that will almost certainly bring her to the edge of orgasm. Take one hand and press gently on the bottom of her stomach\top of her volva, pull upwards very gently to stretch out the vagina lengthways, you will want to do this gently as to not cause to much discomfort, take your other hand and use the same hooking motion we just talked about to penetrate her vagina. 

Then take your tongue and flatten it out like you are once again, licking windows, and press the middle of your flat tongue up against her clitoris. Then whilst you are penetrating with one hand, and gently pulling with the other, move your tongue in clockwise circles, keeping it as flat and pressed to her clitoris as you possibly can, as she gets more exited add more and more pressure and increase the penetration, this should bring her to a clitoral climax like she will have never experienced before! 

When it comes to trying to make your girl squirt, there are a few variations that need to be made to this technique. First of all, she needs to understand that this is what you are trying to do, because instead of normal orgasm where her whole body tenses up, when she feels close to orgasm, she should be pushing her pelvic muscles down like she is trying to pee. 

The fluid that comes out when a female ejaculates, comes from the same hole that pee comes from, although it is an entirely different fluid, it’s just the same as when semen comes from the same hole pee comes from in a man. 

Once you have explained that when she feels close to orgasm she needs to push like this, you are ready to start eating her pussy. Then you use the technique I explained above to bring her close to orgasm, when she is ridiculously aroused and feels as if she is close to orgasm, you can begin the technique to help her squirt. 

The tongue does exactly the same and was doing, but now your fingers will hook more as if you are hanging onto a climbing wall, you will press and rub her g-spot with a lot more pressure as you penetrate, in fact, your penetration will become minimal (although not non-existent), move your fingers as if you were scratching a record like a DJ, along with this, use your other hand to instead of pull the vagina upwards, push down slightly on her lower stomach. This should induce at the very least and incredibly intense orgasm. 

Like I said, this is high gear foreplay and we are now combining techniques from guide number 1 from the Reads For MEN guides, about Sexy Foreplay Ideas  to Leave Her Wet and Waiting and guide number 8 about Eating Pussy Like a Savage and lastly guide number  19 to Unleash the Ultimate G-Spot Orgasm

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