Foreplay before Foreplay; getting her aroused before you do ANYTHING sexual with her
If you know anything about women, you will know they need to be aroused before intercourse, but you might not know that getting a woman aroused before you do ANYTHING sexual with her, is the ultimate key to making all of your sexual experiences with her amazing for her, and will give you both total satisfaction in not only intercourse but foreplay. So, before you touch her anywhere explicitly sexual, touch her in the places that aren’t explicitly sexual. You can use your mouth, fingers, nose, sex toys etc.
The MOST IMPORTNANT thing to take into consideration is your interest. Treat her as if she is the most delicious thing you will ever eat, run your fingers over her like she is silk, words can be just as arousing as touch, so be sure to notice everything you are finding pleasing to your eyes and make her aware of just how much you are going to enjoy having the privilege of experiencing those aspects in every form possible.
Make sure she is a comfortable temperature, make sure she is ultimately comfortable in every way. Run your fingers over her neck lightly to start off with, her hips, in between her thighs, in the crease on her inner thigh that joins her thigh to her hips. Kissing her inner thighs, holding her bum with your hands, pulling her hips towards your face. The more you touch her in that area, the greater the blood flow to the area will be, and therefore the more sensitive, prop her upper body up slightly if you wish. Kiss her inner thighs, her lower stomach, her hips as if you want to kiss them forever, add real passion to the experience, as if she is a goddess and you want to give her the best experience its possible for you to give her.
Massage oil is a useful tool when it comes to pre-foreplay, coconut oil is my favorite. Give her inner thighs, lower stomach and asshole (if she’s into that), a good rub, don’t be too light or it will tickle, don’t be too firm, either, especially you men, you tend to forget your strength, especially when you are aroused; you don’t want to hurt your lady, pain is a major turn off for a majority of women.
Some women are impatient and will want you to start licking them straight away, there are a couple of things to bear in mind in this instance. On the first hand, she might be truly ready for you to go down on her, on the other, she might want you to start getting her aroused by going down on her, you can distinguish this by doing a quick check, basically, put a finger in her gently, and check to see if she is really sticky, wet and hot, and I mean REALLY. Vaginas in their nature are already sticky and warm, but you want it to be truly juicy, slick and HOT. If you don’t think she is quite there yet, ask her nicely if you can proceed with the previous steps until she is really begging for your mouth to be on her lower lips.
If she is not, then in guide number 1 from the Reads For MEN guides, I talk about Sexy Foreplay Ideas to Leave Her Wet and Waiting