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If you know anything about women, you will know they need to be aroused before intercourse , but you might not know that getting a woman aroused before you do ANYTHING sexual with her, is the ultimate key to making all of your sexual experiences with her amazing for her, and will give you both total satisfaction in not only intercourse but foreplay. So, before you touch her anywhere explicitly sexual, touch her in the places that aren’t explicitly sexual. You can use your mouth, fingers, nose, sex toys etc.  The MOST IMPORTNANT thing to take into consideration is your interest. Treat her as if she is the most delicious thing you will ever eat, run your fingers over her like she is silk, words can be just as arousing as touch, so be sure to notice everything you are finding pleasing to your eyes and make her aware of just how much you are going to enjoy having the privilege of experiencing those aspects in every form possible.  Make sure she is a comfortable temperature, mak...

Most guys ruin cuddling by treating it like a race to sex. That’s the mistake. A woman doesn’t melt into you because you’re aggressively trying to make a move. She melts into you because she feels relaxed, wanted, safe, and sexually charged at the same time . The moment cuddling starts feeling like a sneaky negotiation for sex, her body stiffens up instantly. The trick is understanding this: Sexy cuddling is not foreplay disguised as affection. It is affection that slowly becomes foreplay. That difference matters. Here’s a simple progression that works extremely well because it builds tension gradually instead of forcing it. This is what you do… Start by sitting close enough that your legs or shoulders naturally touch. Not crushed together. Just enough contact that your bodies acknowledge each other. Then do this sequence: Hold her for about thirty seconds without moving your hands much at all. After that, lightly stroke her arm or waist for five to ten seconds, then go still again. Ne...

One of the biggest mistakes men make in bed is assuming women experience sexual desire the same way men often do. For many men, desire comes first. You feel turned on, then you want sex. Simple. But for many women, the process runs in reverse . A woman may not be walking around feeling hungry for sex out of nowhere. She may feel neutral, distracted, stressed from the day, or mentally nowhere near intimacy. Then something physical and emotional begins to happen. Touching. Kissing. Relaxation. Feeling desired without pressure. The body starts waking up first. Only after arousal begins does desire appear. This is where many men sabotage themselves without realizing it. They treat foreplay like a short warm up before the “real event.” Meanwhile, for many women, foreplay is the event that creates the desire in the first place . Skip that part or rush through it and she may honestly believe she is “not in the mood,” when in reality her body simply has not had time to switch gears yet. Think...

  You may have even heard that cheesy phrase that the brain is the biggest sex organ in women. Well, it’s true.  Let me break it down as simply as possible. There are “Brakes” that lower your girl’s sex drive and “Accelerators” that increase her sex drive . These Brakes and Accelerators are mostly psychological, and they can both be happening at the same time. This is why it’s known as the dual-control model of sexual desire; although, the researchers describe these forces officially as the sexual excitement and inhibition systems rather than accelerators and brakes. But knowing the technical name is less important than understanding how the dual-control model of Accelerators and Brakes works in reality. Brakes that lower her sex drive include: - Stress - Low self-confidence - Feeling taken for granted - Feeling unattractive - Lack of trust - The wrong time in her menstrual cycle (aka her period). - Certain medical conditions - Responsibilities in the home - Sex-negative messa...

  Controlling your speed when having penetrative sex also helps you control how quickly you come. Faster thrusting tends to lead more quickly to an orgasm.  What I suggest is this simple penetration technique that can yield tremendous staying power for you, and yet put her on a continuous sexual high at the same time. This is what you do… Perform eight shallow thrusts about two to three inches deep, and then one deep thrust. Follow this up with seven shallow thrusts and then two deep ones; six shallow thrusts followed by three deep ones. You get the idea. Continue doing this until you are performing nine deep thrusting movements. Then repeat the entire sequence again. Why does this work so well? First, deep thrusts are the ones that bring your penis closest to orgasm, as the frenulum (the stringy thing in the "inverted v" under the glans) and shaft skin are stretched the most, causing greater arousal. Varying shallow and deep thrusts will help taper off the stimulation on t...

  Here’s another thing I always recommend - talking to your partner about sex. I know this stuff can be embarrassing but keeping your anxiety about coming too soon to yourself will only make it worse. For one thing, maybe your partner doesn’t think that penetration needs to last any longer than it usually does. Talk about taking the pressure off! Talking about wanting to last longer in bed with your partner allows them to become part of the solution . They can help you figure out your triggers and stay away from specific moves or sensations until you’re both ready. They can also stretch foreplay out a little longer, offer up new positions , and assist with edging – which can increase the intensity for both of you. Also Amp Up the Foreplay Sometimes we need reminding that there is more to sex than penetration , and plenty of couples never have penis-in-anything sex and have lots of fun. Prolonging the foreplay and exploring each other’s pleasure buttons builds anticipation and dee...

Sometimes ejaculating too fast is due to the fact that you haven't had sex. When it has been a while since you had sex it means your prostrate is full engorged and the slightest touch, lick, or thrust can set you off - literally! If you masturbate and ejaculate an hour or two before you plan on having sex then it means that you will last longer when you have sex.  Caution: Practice appropriate timing between sessions, the last thing you need is then not being able to perform at all. I often recommend masturbation and I am going to recommend it again. Solo sex can be sex without pressure where you can learn what it feels like when you’re about to ejaculate and practice some techniques for pulling yourself back from the brink . You can also learn what absolutely puts you over that edge so you can avoid it until you and your partner are satisfied with how long sex has lasted. Instead of masturbating towards orgasm, try to focus on what is actually happening to your body. Notice the...