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For him: How to put
the “Oh” in Her Orgasm
Orgasm. It is the most pleasurable sensation one could ever
feel. For a moment in time, our minds draw a blank and we are blissfully paired
with the energy of another. The moment lasts all of 7 seconds for men and
extends to 20 seconds for women, but those few seconds of contractions and
chemical rush seem like eternity as we die to ourselves. Although reaching an
orgasm is the goal of sex for many, it is the lead up to the climax that matters
most. One element of the arousal period that is necessary but often overlooked
is clear communication to encourage proper technique. Moaning isn't just for
show, it is a form of communication to let your partner know their actions are
felt and accepted. It occurs naturally when one is being pleasured sexually,
and it signifies the desire for more. In the area of giving permission, the
sound of a moan is a positive passive indicator.
One of the most common complaints I hear about sex is the
lack of noise made during the act. And I wouldn't blame women for just laying
there during sex without saying a word. Many women aren't allowing themselves
to enjoy sex, because honestly it was never encouraged that they do so. And
because of this, many women aren't reaching the point of orgasm often or even
at all. It's time to change this, because if she isn't moaning, she isn't
having a great time.
So how does a man go about making his partner reach the spastic moans of an orgasm? The process is simple once you have the proper tools of communication and sexual technique.
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“NOW , WHEN I SPEAK OF MOANING, I DON'T MEAN THE HIGH PITCHED SCREAMSYOU HEAR SPRINKLED WITH PROFANITY THAT YOU HEAR ON YOUR FAVORITEFLICK. I'M SPEAKING ABOUT THE LOW, VIBRATING SOUNDS THAT SEEM TO COMEFROM DEEP WITHIN. THE MOANS THAT LET'S YOU KNOW SHE'S LOOSING HERSELF ANDTRULY ENJOYING YOU. THAT IS THE PLACE EVERY WOMAN SHOULD BE DURING SEX INORDER FOR HER TO TRULY REACH AN ORGASM”
How a guy should use
encouraging dirty talk During sex
Just as a coach uses encouraging speech to motivate his
team, each a man can use dirty talk as a way to move his partner towards the
orgasm she seeks. Communicating during intercourse ensures that she is getting
what she needs, so don't be afraid to be that voice of command. Using confirmation
phrases such as "do you like that baby", "How does my cock feel
inside of you" "Do you like taking this dick" "do you want
me to go deeper"...all of these phrases and ones similar help to give
positive feedback about what you're doing and encourages her to speak.
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Using encouraging phrases that get her deeper into the mood can help her relax into the sensations of sex. Using phrases like: "I want you to cum for me baby", "Let out those moans" "don't hold back" "open up for me baby" all give directed permission for her to enjoy herself. Sometimes all a woman needs is permission to open up like a flower ready to bloom. If confidence in speaking in this way has got you tripped up, practice during a sexy phone sex conversation with your lover from another room. It’s also a great form of foreplay.
[Alpha Male Style; Assertively Sexually Satisfying Her in Bed](https://366moves.wordpress.com/2022/09/30/alpha-male/)
What about Clitoral
stimulation with penetration?
The clitoris is the organ that is solely responsible for the
female orgasm, and to ignore it is to guarantee the absence of a climax for her.
Factually, the legs of the clitoris are stimulated during penetration, but it
is the direct application of pressure to the exposed head of the clitoris that
encourages orgasm. By using erotic massage, clitoral vibrators or masturbation
the clitoris can be stimulated to arouse sexual energy. Try to combine this
type of direct stimulation during penetration and watch her body reach the
highest form of ecstasy.
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Putting the Ooooh into her orgasm isn't difficult. All it requires is a bit of effort and some thinking outside of the traditional sexual box. Women have different sexual triggers than men and need more attention and direct contact to truly become aroused. Give her the affection and variation she needs, talk to her, find out what she likes and keep her moaning for more orgasm after orgasm.
[Perfect Pace; Secret Taoist Penis Thrusting Technique that Gives Women Orgasms](https://366moves.wordpress.com/2022/09/30/perfect-pace/)
For Him: 5 Quick Tips
For Tongue Stroking The Cat
Ok ladies it's our turn! Time for some quick tips to give your man for when he decides to go down under and kiss your second set of lips. Fellas, if you're reading this please pay attention! So without further rhetoric, let's jump into it!
(1)BRUSH YOUR TEETH
A woman's vulva is one of the most sensitive parts of her
body and is the area that houses the clitoris, the vagina and the urethra.
Because the female urethra is short, women are more prone to contracting
Urinary Tract Infections than men because of the easy access bad bacteria has
to reach the bladder. Therefore, before you go down, make sure you brush your
teeth or at least rinses with some powerful mouth wash to kill any of the
bacteria or foods you may have eaten during the day. ESPECIALLY HOT SAUCE.
Trust me, you don't want to give her that burning sensation while you're
licking her pussy lips.
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(2)SUCK ON THE
CLITORIS
The clitoris is the most sensitive erogenous zone of a
female and when stimulated, it causes arousal. Make sure you DON'T IGNORETHE
CLITORIS! It's the fastest way to get her wet and ready to play in the main
event. If head is the main objective, then it's the fastest way to get her to
orgasm. If you have trouble finding it, then let her help you out! The clitoris
is housed within a skin called the Clitoral Hood, so it does a good job at
hiding at times. It also extends a few centimeters below the surface so make
sure you apply a bit of pressure with your tongue to rub the clitoris in a
circular motion in between sucking. And remember, NO TEETH! We hate scrapping
just as much as you do.
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(3)SWITCH UP THE
TECHNIQUE
No one likes a monkey doing one dance, so make sure you
switch it up! Fellas, don't focus all of your attention to sucking on the
Clitoris. Lick and suck on the inner and outer lips, kiss her inner thighs, use
your vocal cords to create a vibrating effect on the clitoris, finger her
vagina to hit the g-spot and just get creative! The more versatile you are, the
closer you will bring her to an orgasm.
(4)CONTROL YOUR
SALIVA LEVEL
More saliva equals more stimulation for a man, but the vulva
doesn't need to be drowned in saliva in order for a woman to become stimulated.
Fellas, if your woman likes it sloppy, then by all means make a mess, but to
start out, try to keep the saliva to a normal level. Slobbering like a dog in
the vulva may come off as you not wanting to take in any of her fluids in your
mouth, don't want to perform the act, or that you are quite possibly
inexperienced.
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(5)ENJOY YOUR TIME
DOWN UNDER
Fellas, a woman wants you to enjoy performing oral sex just as much as you would want her to, so head down south with excitement! The more passion you put into each stroke of your tongue, the better! She will feel your enthusiasm and will become more aroused at the thought of you enjoying the act. The exchange of positive energy goes a long way! Just like I told the ladies, take your mind out of it and have fun!
[Muff Diving Champion; How to Taste Pussy & like it](https://366moves.wordpress.com/2022/12/27/muff/)
How to ‘Edge’ Your
Woman Towards a Mind-Blowing Orgasm
If you want to learn the ULTIMATE way to give your woman a
mind-blowing orgasm then this is it. Edging is an orgasm control technique that
you can use to give your woman the strongest orgasms imaginable!
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Here’s how it works: You bring your woman to the point of
orgasm and then stop her, bring her back from the edge, and then build her up
towards climax again. Also known as ‘peaking’ and ‘surfing’, edging can be used
during mutual masturbation, oral sex or even intercourse and can result in
stronger, more powerful orgasms that can make your woman SHAKE with passion!
However, it comes with a catch:
Edging is definitely an advanced technique. To master it,
you should be experienced enough to be able to make your girl cum with ease.
You must be able to sense the verbal and non-verbal cues that she’s almost
ready to come.
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If you’re a beginner or intermediate, trying to ‘edge’ your
woman can result in nothing more than frustration for her! You’re honestly
better off maintaining a super-steady pace and pressure throughout until she
comes. If you try to ‘edge’ her and fluff it, you’ll ruin her orgasm AND her
mood!
But if you’re at the point where reliably make your girl
climax, then edging can be the one thing that turns an orgasm from ordinary to
SHAKING!
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Here’s how to edge
your girl during cunnilingus!
While eating out your woman’s pussy, look or listen for cues
that she’s ready to come.
Reduce or completely stop eating her out and wait until her
feelings subside.
When she’s cooled off, restart the stimulation and repeat
until she’s ready to come.
You can also try the super-slow method by slowing down so that her final approach to orgasm takes longer than usual. This can be HYPER-PLEASURABLE for your woman and can result in the orgasm that you’re aiming for!
[Take Me Right Here; Making Your Woman Do Anything in Bed](https://366moves.wordpress.com/2022/09/30/take-me/)
Time to unleash an
incredibly potent oral sex move: THE TONGUE MASSAGE
Begin by sticking your tongue out and making is as wide and
as flat as possible. This gives you the same approximate surface area as your
four fingers in the clit massage technique, except you’ll be letting your
tongue work its magic!
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To perform the Tongue Massage, keep your tongue as wide and
flat as possible and let your head to all the work! Begin by covering your
tongue in saliva and pressing it over your woman’s mons. Slowly push your head
down until your tongue is covering as much of her vulva as possible. Next,
begin moving your head in small circular motions over her clitoris and clitoral
hood.
Remember:
It’s not your tongue doing the work: your entire head is
performing the movement while your tongue remains relaxed, wide and flat. All
the pressure comes from your neck muscles, not from your tongue movements, so
don’t twist your tongue or lick, just keep it as flat as possible.
With a little practice, you’ll appreciate the logic behind
this: your tongue doesn’t get tired so you can perform cunnilingus for longer,
giving your women enough time to orgasm! Studies have shown that just 15 – 20
minutes of foreplay can DOUBLE the chances of a woman reaching orgasm!
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Begin by using minimal pressure and see how your woman
responds.
Is she moaning, arching her back, breathing more heavily or
clutching at the bedsheets? If so, that’s probably a good sign that you’re on
the right track!
If not, slowly increase the pressure until you can tell
she’s enjoying it. Sexual arousal is often translated unconsciously, so pay as
much attention to her physical responses as to her verbal cues.
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Your goal should be to use the least possible amount of pressure
until she orgasms, so don’t be afraid to ask what feels best! Every woman is
different: some women need incredibly light pressure and slow movements while
others need hard and fast, like a dog lapping up water – so if in doubt, just
ask! Most women prefer a steady pace when they are approaching orgasm – so find
a pressure level and pace that works and stick with it!
However, with enough practice, you’ll be able to take your head game to a whole new level with a technique known as ‘edging’.
[Vagina Massage; Complete Guide into Pleasuring Her with Your Hands](https://366moves.wordpress.com/2022/09/29/vagina/)
Perfectly Teasing Her
with Your Tongue
If you want to make your woman SHAKE with ecstasy, you need
to use your tongue. Sexually teasing your woman with your tongue can propel her
to multiple orgasms!
But be warned:
The techniques I’m going to show you are so good that your
girl may become sexually addicted to you! Tongue teasing will work her up into
a FRENZY of excitement, especially if it follows a good fingering!
Here are my TOP THREE tips for teasing your woman and
helping her build her levels of arousal until she shakes when she cums.
1. Kiss, nibble and
lick her erogenous zones
Your woman’s most powerful erogenous zones include her inner
thighs, the back of her neck, her lips and even the bottoms of her feet. You
can drive her INSANE by kissing, nibbling and licking these areas of her body
before spreading her legs and kissing up to her panties. Nibbling or squeezing
the skin on her inner thighs with your teeth will likely drive her CRAZY with
passion!
2. Lick and kiss her
through her panties
To make her literally BEG you to start eating her out, try
kissing her vulva and vagina through her panties before you take them off. Run
your tongue softly from the bottom of her vagina up to her clitoris. Kiss the
area above her clitoris (her mons) and then move back down. Alternate between
her inner thighs and her vulva to make her moan with anticipation!
3. Stoke her with
your fingers
One of the most POWERFUL ways to build your woman’s excitement levels is to combine well-placed kisses, nibbles, and licks with finger movements. Try rubbing or flicking your fingers across her clitoris WHILE licking and kissing her vulva, or switch things up by stroking her vagina while kissing her mons and clitoris! These three techniques for teasing your woman should make her see stars and start thrashing with excitement!
[Foreplay Done Right; Getting Her Horny & Bothered](https://366moves.wordpress.com/2022/09/29/foreplay/)
Tonight during sex try
to Stroke, press and rub her G spot
Most women love a combination of stroking, pressing and
rubbing on their G-spot. The KEY to giving your woman an incredible orgasm is
finding out which one or combination of these movements drives her WILD!
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Do this:
Stroke her G-spot
Simply run the tip of your index finger over her G-spot in
short, regular motions.
Press her G-spot
Try pressing directly on her G-spot and holding your finger
in place for a few seconds.
Rub her G-spot
Try rubbing your woman’s G-spot in small, circular motions. Try a variety of pressures until you find the perfect one.
[Female Ejaculation; Unleash the Ultimate G-Spot Orgasm](https://366moves.wordpress.com/2022/09/29/female-ejaculation/)
Here is How to Finger Her Clitoris properly
Using the right techniques, you can make her thrash and
WRITHE with pleasure until she SQUIRTS with happiness! I’m going to show you
the BEST THREE moves that you can use to finger your woman’s clit until she
experiences a toe-curling, back-arching orgasm that she’ll never forget!
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1. Rub her clit
Once your woman is nicely turned on and wet, take your index
finger and start rubbing her clitoris in a gentle up and down motion. For most
women, this intense, direct stimulation is enough to make them climax!
Alternate your speed and pressure until you find EXACTLY how she loves you to
touch her and then keep a super-steady pace until she cums.
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2. Flick her clit
An extremely erotic alternative to rubbing is lightly
flicking your index finger from left to right over your woman’s clit at various
speeds and angles. Use plenty of water-based lube to let your finger ‘glide’
more easily over her clit. If you feel your finger drying out, either apply
more lube or dip your fingertip into her vagina to pick up some of her natural
lubrication.
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3. Massage her clit
While rubbing or flicking with your index finger will be
enough to make most women orgasm, if your partner needs even more stimulation,
you may want to try this third technique – massaging her clit.
Put plenty of lube on all four of your fingers and start
rubbing your woman’s clitoris and labia in a small circular motion. This
technique will feel CRAZY GOOD as your fingers have a large surface area,
helping maximize the pleasure your girl experiences!
[Fingering Her; Explicitly Illustrated Techniques to do it Right](https://366moves.wordpress.com/2022/09/30/fingering-her/)
How to Build Arousal Through Fingering
If you want to help your girl experience the thrill of a
screaming orgasm, you need to build her arousal levels. This takes time and
patience and no, there aren’t any shortcuts. Sorry!
Fingering your woman’s most intimate parts like her clitoris
and G-spot is the surest way to make her super-aroused. I’m going to show you
the THREE BEST WAYS to do just that!
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So keep reading…
The TOP 3 moves that will send your woman’s arousal levels
through the roof are:
1. Massage her
clitoris
To build tension throughout your woman’s vulva, place your
index and middle finger either side of her Labia Majora and apply a gentle
squeezing pressure at the base of her clitoris. As the two ‘legs’ of her
clitoris run underneath this area, this squeezing motion will feel exquisite
without being overwhelming!
You can also roll her clitoris through the clitoral hood
between your thumb and forefinger and gently tease it by pushing it up and
down. Continually gauge your woman’s’ reaction and experiment until you find
the exact motion that she enjoys the most!
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2. Stroke her labia
Stroking your woman’s labia won’t make her orgasm, but it
can bring her close to climax! The SECRET is using plenty of lube. Use your
index and middle finger to stroke up and down her labia as lightly as possible.
As her arousal levels build, her natural lubrication will
make the stroking feel even more erotic and enjoyable for her. If her labia is
long enough, you may also be able to rub her clitoris through her labia for
extra excitement!
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The third technique for building your woman’s arousal levels
is to use your index finger and gently stroke upwards from the bottom of her
labia to the top where the inner labia meet and form the clitoral hood.
This feels incredible if your finger is covered in her natural lubrication! When your woman is nicely wet, you can also stroke from top to bottom too, starting at her clitoris and stroking down to her vagina.
[Fingering Her; Explicitly Illustrated Techniques to do it Right](https://366moves.wordpress.com/2022/09/30/fingering-her/)
This is how to Make Her
Orgasm every time
It’s every lover’s dream – intense, mind-blowing orgasms
that leave your legs weak… The ultimate connection with your lover.
Do you want the bad news? For 70% of women, that just
doesn’t happen during sex.
Worse, what if I told you that 80 percent are moaning and
groaning not only when they are absolutely not climaxing or coming anywhere
near it, but when they are really just wishing for the whole thing to be over?
Shocking, but true.
Sadly, many guys think penetration (thrusting in and out) is
enough to make a woman orgasm. The thing is, that’s not how most women’s bodies
work.
Do you want to learn the right moves to satisfy your lover
every time?
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1. Get her wet
Teasing your woman can begin before you even get to the
bedroom. Whispering suggestive things in her ear, or even texting her hints of
what you want to do with her will spark a lot of excitement. Remember it’s all
about building the tension.
When it comes to foreplay, most men make the mistake of
going right for her sensitive spots. Take your time, slow down, and start with
deep kissing.
Let your hands work their way down her body. Focus on the
less obvious spots, like her neck, toes, inner thighs, butt and spine. Don’t
jump right to her breasts or her genitals.
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2. Use your tongue
What makes one woman orgasm can be quite different than what
makes another woman orgasm, but oral sex is almost universal.
Wait until your partner is hot and heavy, begging for you to
go between her legs, rather than going in too quickly and killing the mood.
Start with a light touch, then work up to more extreme
stimulation with an increasingly faster pace and more intensity. Think of it as
building to a crescendo.
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3. Stimulate her
clitoris and G-Spot at the same time
Once she’s ready, genital stimulation is the best way to
help a woman reach orgasm. The natural way is vaginal penetration (g-spot) and
clitoral stimulation at the same time.
A woman’s G-spot is typically about 5 to 8 cm (2 to 3
inches) inside her vagina, so shallow thrusts are all you need.
The trick is to find the right rhythm, then don’t change it,
and don’t stop.
Many women have hot-spots further in that are only
stimulated by deep penetration. Positions that shorten the vagina (legs brought
closer to the abdomen or chest) can help you reach into the region above and
below the cervix, which is how to give her a “deep spot” orgasm.
For more tips and tricks you can use to help any woman have
a mind blowing, toe curling orgasm, [check this guide](https://366moves.wordpress.com/2022/09/29/female-101/)
Here is how to Take Her To The Edge & Back
Edging is a powerful tool you can use to amplify her orgasms. The best part is that you don’t have to reserve edging for when you go down on her to eat her out. You can use it during anal sex, regular sex or any other activity that can make her orgasm.
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For now, we’re going to talk about how to edge her when eating her pussy.
Start by eating her out as you normally would…
When you can tell she is getting close to climaxing, start to slow down and back off, so she DOESN’T orgasm.
Spend twenty seconds to two minutes on something else pleasurable that won’t bring her to orgasm like:
- Kissing all the way around her vagina.
- Kissing her up and down her inner thighs.
- Focusing your attention on her breasts.
Then when she has calmed down just a little bit, return to eating her out as normal, but at a slightly slower pace this time. Again, you want to do this up until she is about to climax, then…
Stop.
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Again, spend some time on other pleasurable, but non-orgasm-inducing activities until she has calmed down.
Start eating her out again at an even slower pace all the way until she cums.
I can guarantee you that edging her like this will cause her to have one of the most powerful orgasms of her life, if not the most powerful.
And, as I said before, you can use edging during any orgasm inducing activity
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Note that it’s difficult for some women to come, even if you eat pussy the right way. If this applies to your partner, I would not advise trying to edge her because you’ll both end up frustrated just like you might feel if you struggle to get hard and maintain your erection.
[Cunnilingus 101; An Illustrated Guide into Eating Pussy Like a Savage](https://366moves.wordpress.com/2022/09/29/cunnilingus/)
How Do Pornstars Last So Long?
You’re not alone if you’ve never heard of edging. It’s not that popular as kegels, but, in my mind, it’s much more effective.
Edging simply means that you are masturbating for a very long time, usually anywhere between 20 and 40 minutes, without ejaculating during that time.
Your goal is to prolong the amount of time you can last in a highly aroused state. By practicing lasting longer while masturbating, you train yourself to last longer in bed.
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The problem with a lot of guys is they don’t practice having enough sex. To make matters worse, when they jack off, they just try to get it done as fast as possible.
They don’t want anyone to catch them in the act, so they squeeze it out real quick and get on with their day.
This is bad and trains you to be a two-pump chuck. If you want to last longer, you have to practice.
The way to do this is to climb “the arousal ladder.” Imagine an arousal scale going from 1 to 10.
Level 1 is where you’re not even slightly excited, and level 10 is where you are milliseconds away from an orgasm.
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During sex, your goal is to get to level 7 and stay there for the entire time. Anything below, and you risk losing your erection. Anything above, and you could blow your orgasm.
How do you know what the different levels feel like?
That’s where edging comes in.
Think of edging as sort of a boot camp for the real thing. Just like MMA fighters train with punching bags and sparring partners before stepping into the octagon, so should you practice edging as a practice for sex with your wife or girlfriend.
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Now, most guys ask me if they should ejaculate at the end of their edging session or not.
My answer is: It depends. Some guys ejaculate only once a week, and they are fine with that. Others find that if they don’t come at the end of every session, they will last even shorter the next time they have sex. Other guys find that if they orgasm too much while edging, they can’t get it up with their wife. If you want to learn more about lasting long in bed, [check out this guide](https://366moves.wordpress.com/2022/09/29/ultimate/)
Go Deep: Various Ways To Switch Up The Stroke
There is an art to making love, and just like the variety of paint strokes a painter uses to create a beautiful piece of art, a varied stroke technique is needed to truly create a beautiful and satisfying sexual experience when in the bedroom. Any man can pump like a jack rabbit and achieve his orgasm quickly, but to put the pleasure of your partner first and sincerely savor every moment of being inside of her and connecting on an energy level separates the truly skilled from the animalistic.
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Slow short stroke
The slow short stroke is one that can provide great stimulation by massaging the very opening of the vagina that contains hundreds of nerve endings. Go in slowly with short strokes and drive her crazy! Your penis head will thank you later.
Slow long stroke
The slow long stroke is the one that has the most feeling in it. You get the opportunity to experience every ripple in the vaginal walls and to truly connect with your partner while watching her enjoy you inside of her. Switch to the slow stroke to also reduce an overabundance of sensation that may cause you to ejaculate earlier than you would like.
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Fast short stroke
Similar to the slow short stroke just with more speed, this stroke provides a rapid sensation to the opening of the vagina. Use this stroke before fully penetrating.
Fast Long stroke
This jack rabbit approach is one that is commonly used by younger men during their eager attempts at busting one, but it’s also a great way to take full control during sex and put your partner into total submission. The fast, deep penetration will drive her wild when switching from the short or long slow stroke.
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Rhythm Stroke
Based on a rhythm usually deriving from following the rhythm of music playing in the background during sex or from a rhythm created in your mind, the rhythm stroke is one that keeps a woman guessing about how you’re going to make your next move.
Curved Stroke
The curved stroke is one that has an arch to it instead of being a straight in and out motion. When the pelvis is rotated in a curving motion, the penis hits the vaginal walls at different angles that will make her body shake with pleasure!
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Couples top PRE & POST-sex Routines & Rituals
Do you and your boo have a pre-sex ritual? You’re not alone! A new survey shows most people have pre and post-sex routines they stick to when getting frisky between the sheets.
From brushing teeth to shaving, here’s a look at the most popular sex rituals — and some of the most common anxieties men and women have around sex.
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Take a shower
Brush teeth
Go to the bathroom
Shave
Use mouthwash
Put on clean underwear
Change the bedsheets
Put on lingerie
Floss teeth
Light a candle
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Cuddling
Watching tv/movie
Drink some water
Get dressed
Spoon
Nothing- just lay there
Have deep, meaningful conversations
Make food
Order takeout
Go on social media
[For Couples: Download all My Books here](https://366moves.wordpress.com/2022/09/30/couples/)Top 5 sex worries for men
Pleasing my partner
How long I can last
Maintaining my erection
Finding a good rhythm with my partner
That I don’t smell bad
Top 5 sex worries for women
What my body looks like
Pleasing my partner
That I don’t smell bad
Finding a good rhythm with my partner
Having to use the bathroom in the middle of it
[For Couples: Download all My Books here](https://366moves.wordpress.com/2022/09/30/couples/)REVEALED!!! Couples Who Have Less Sex Fight More
There is an endless list of reasons that couples get into arguments. Disagreements could spark up over anything from financial issues to jealousy and leave one of you sleeping on the couch for a few uncomfortable nights, but one thing no couple ever wants to argue over is sex. Unfortunately, it happens to the best of us.
[Download All My Reads For Women books in PDF & EPUB](https://366moves.wordpress.com/2022/09/30/women/)There are logical reasons why people get cranky when they aren’t having sex. Your partner isn’t ranting about not getting any action simply because he or she is inconsiderate and selfish. There’s actually science behind their why people get upset when sex is lacking.
Having sex produces dopamine, oxytocin, and other endorphins in the brain that makes people feel good. So when sex is missing from a relationship these chemicals aren’t released in the same manner. Still, this is only part of what contributes to couples fighting more when they aren’t having sex.
[Download All My Reads For Men books in PDF & EPUB](https://366moves.wordpress.com/2022/09/29/men/)For many couples—if not the majority—sex represents a significant means of intimate connection, in physical terms of course, but also in an emotional capacity.”
Though sex and emotional connections aren’t always perfectly connected, people do have the tendency to link our sex lives with the level of satisfaction in relationships, hence the reason why partners associate decreases in relationship satisfaction with the decline of the desire to have sex. The problem is that many factors, including depression, stress, or being tired can also contribute to a reduction in sex drive, but the brain misinterprets a lack of sex into signals that something is wrong within the relationship.
This is more of a reason why communication is key in relationships. If your partner’s desire to have sex with you takes a dive, it’s more important to discuss why, instead of having sex just to have sex with hopes that it will correct the problem.
[For Couples: Download all My Books here](https://366moves.wordpress.com/2022/09/30/couples/)- It’s Not Your Penis Size That Lacks, It’s Your Confidence!
- Alright, I get it. As a man, a portion of your ego is placed in your penis. A man's bravery is often equated to the size of his balls and his"macho" is equated to the size of his penis, but as of late, I've noticed a lot of men who's egos have been deflated because of the "size"issue.
- Maybe some of you have secretly compared the size of your penises to the size of others while changing in a locker room or while side by side at urinals in the restroom and feel you come up short, but I'm here to shed some light on the whole "does size matter" issue.
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- I'm not going to profess that size doesn't matter because it is a major factor in a woman's satisfaction during sex depending on the size of her vagina, but what matters more than penile size is your confidence in using what you have and the connection you have with the woman you're aiming to please. There are a great number of women that I have had the pleasure of talking to about this subject that admit that while a large penis is appealing in theory, the emotional connection with a man and having fun during sex are far more important.
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- On average, the male penis is anywhere from 5.5 inches to 6 inches when fully erect, so anything above the average is a blessing indeed. The average condom is made to fit up to 7-7.5 inches of fully erect penis (with an average girth), so this should go to show you that you're not alone if you don't have a penis the size of a baby's forearm.
- Realistically, it is your lack of confidence in your penis size that is causing you to lack on the side of skill when it comes to putting it down in the bedroom. If your mind isn't connected to your penis with confidence, then it will show up in your performance, causing a lack luster experience for both you and your partner. There are more 6 inch and below penises in the world than the monster meats you see in porno. Grow some confidence in what you have! The universe doesn't make any mistakes in its creations.
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- My suggestion to you is to get out of your ego about your penis, stop looking down with concern for why he isn't a size you think he's supposed to be and look up into the eyes of the beautiful woman that is lying on her back ready to receive what you have to give to her with ultimate confidence! If you got her as far as being naked and ready to go, then you've done something right in striking up her sexual desire for you.
- NEWSFLASH HOMIE...SHE IS READY TO GO AND DOESN'T GIVE A DAMN ABOUT HOW BIG YOUR PENIS IS
- BECAUSE SHE HAS ALREADY SEEN IT AND WANTS IT! If all systems are a go, then get yourself a boost of confidence and go in for the kill! After all, it's not about the equipment but how you work it! And if you don't know how to work it, this guide below exists to help you build up your skill!
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