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Tempo/Rhythm

Let’s face it, most guys learn their sex skills from watching porn. Unfortunately, porn is done to look really hot, NOT to feel good. This is why most use jackhammer tempo in scenes. It looks great on film but doesn’t translate as well in bed. Read https://www.patreon.com/collection/2068981

If you want your man to last longer, you’re going to have to show him a better way. He’s watched porn for years. It’ll take a team effort to undo bad habits and make sex better for both of you.

When you have sex, the sensation is caused by friction between penis and vagina. When you go faster, there’s much more sensation. On top of that, having fast sex is more tiring.

Combine these together, and faster tempo leads to a quicker ejaculation. Therefore I suggest slowing down the rhythm and mixing up the tempo.

Tell your man you want to make love. Start with some good foreplay, and after you’re warmed up, move to facing spoons position. Instead of proceeding straight to crazy monkey sex, have him insert you…and stop.