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To be a foreplay master try using Massage to up your game.
So, I have been reading this and it is where I got the idea: https://arfc01.blogspot.com/2026/01/men.html#3
One of the most pleasurable ways to up your foreplay game, is to work on your massage skills. You can add the massage at any time before you have sex or move on to oral, but it should be a tool in every man’s repertoire.
When you are taking her clothes off, or after you have already taken her clothes off, you can begin to massage her. The most effective and expressive part of her body that men do not massage, are her legs. Yes, her legs. Don’t go near her lady parts just yet. Take the time to explore the rest of her body, feel everything about her.
When you massage her, start with her legs, gently stretching and gently pulling her legs. Don’t be afraid, this step helps her relax, and better enjoy sex. Studies have shown that women do not enjoy sex, and can even experience painful sex if they are not relaxed beforehand and during. The massage is an easy way to relieve tension and stress she may be holding, and easing her own feelings of inadequacy before sex. Men are not the only ones worrying about whether or not they are pleasing their partner, after all.
Once you have thoroughly massaged her legs, move down up to her thighs, and continue to pull and stretch. This can be extremely sensual, and teasing.
You are so close to her most sensitive areas, but you should still leave that for later. Make her enjoy the moment, and enjoy the teasing. You will build up the pleasure that can be released later. You have plenty of time to fully enjoy her moist sensitive spots later. From the thighs you can move back down her legs, and to her ankles and feet. Many may only believe that the feet are only for those with fetishes, but a gently but firm foot massage can help greatly in relaxing a woman. She will feel comfortable with you, and show it.