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Oral Sex as foreplay, The Tongue - What, When, Where

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When it comes to giving good oral sex to a woman , you really need to know your shit, you can’t just go down on her and waggle your tongue around and expect things to be wonderful, there is a lot of skill and technique involved to giving good oral sex.  Before we go any further we need to establish a few basics about the internal and the external anatomy of the vagina. If you have spent enough time working on her not so explicitly sexual areas; her vagina will be hot to the touch, sticky and nice and slick, her whole lower body will be warm, everything will have adequate blood flow, her labia and clitoris will be enlarged, maybe not so noticeably, but you will be able to tell just by her temperature.  Ok, so you have your woman splayed in front of you in all her beautiful glory and you wonder where the fuck you should begin and how to go about it, so, listen up!  When it comes to oral sex, you can use all sorts of things to accompany your mouth, and to be honest you will...
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Reclaiming the lost ark (or is it art): Orgasms were once prescribed to promote mental health

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Throughout the ages sex has been a pivotal and misunderstood part of culture. Depending on the religion, sophistication, and ideology of a culture, the role of orgasm and the sexual organs of women have played an important component in shaping societal habits and values. The early Celtic and naturalist cultures saw women as empowered beings because of their ability to give birth and worshipped the ability to transmit life through goddess culture and theology. For many of those earth faiths orgasm was seen as a sort of “possession” by the goddess and a form or magic that could protect people and give visions. When the Roman army conquered the Celtic people, sex was one of the many weapons they used to enslave and shame women in an attempt to replace the power of life giving (by birth) with the power of life taking (by the sword). That shame and the whispered “magic” of orgasm continued on through time. In the Victorian age, women displaying any number of illnesses (depression, schizophr...
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Foreplay before Foreplay; getting her aroused before you do ANYTHING sexual with her

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If you know anything about women, you will know they need to be aroused before intercourse , but you might not know that getting a woman aroused before you do ANYTHING sexual with her, is the ultimate key to making all of your sexual experiences with her amazing for her, and will give you both total satisfaction in not only intercourse but foreplay. So, before you touch her anywhere explicitly sexual, touch her in the places that aren’t explicitly sexual. You can use your mouth, fingers, nose, sex toys etc.  The MOST IMPORTNANT thing to take into consideration is your interest. Treat her as if she is the most delicious thing you will ever eat, run your fingers over her like she is silk, words can be just as arousing as touch, so be sure to notice everything you are finding pleasing to your eyes and make her aware of just how much you are going to enjoy having the privilege of experiencing those aspects in every form possible.  Make sure she is a comfortable temperature, mak...
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Here is how to help her have a better sex drive

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  You may have even heard that cheesy phrase that the brain is the biggest sex organ in women. Well, it’s true.  Let me break it down as simply as possible. There are “Brakes” that lower your girl’s sex drive and “Accelerators” that increase her sex drive . These Brakes and Accelerators are mostly psychological, and they can both be happening at the same time. This is why it’s known as the dual-control model of sexual desire; although, the researchers describe these forces officially as the sexual excitement and inhibition systems rather than accelerators and brakes. But knowing the technical name is less important than understanding how the dual-control model of Accelerators and Brakes works in reality. Brakes that lower her sex drive include: - Stress - Low self-confidence - Feeling taken for granted - Feeling unattractive - Lack of trust - The wrong time in her menstrual cycle (aka her period). - Certain medical conditions - Responsibilities in the home - Sex-negative messa...
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Sexy Cuddling: How to Cuddle With a Girl So She Wants More

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Most guys ruin cuddling by treating it like a race to sex. That’s the mistake. A woman doesn’t melt into you because you’re aggressively trying to make a move. She melts into you because she feels relaxed, wanted, safe, and sexually charged at the same time . The moment cuddling starts feeling like a sneaky negotiation for sex, her body stiffens up instantly. The trick is understanding this: Sexy cuddling is not foreplay disguised as affection. It is affection that slowly becomes foreplay. That difference matters. Here’s a simple progression that works extremely well because it builds tension gradually instead of forcing it. This is what you do… Start by sitting close enough that your legs or shoulders naturally touch. Not crushed together. Just enough contact that your bodies acknowledge each other. Then do this sequence: Hold her for about thirty seconds without moving your hands much at all. After that, lightly stroke her arm or waist for five to ten seconds, then go still again. Ne...
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To get rid of Sexual Anxiety, Have More Sex

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When you worry about something (anything, really), it’s probably because you don’t have much experience doing said activity. A common example is public speaking. Everyone fears public speaking because it’s a scary thing to do…and we never do it. To become a better public speaker, you practice public speaking. To become a better lover…have more sex! I don’t know how much experience you have, but whether you’re young or old… having more sex will improve your sexual confidence. Especially if you’re in a new relationship, having sex might seem like a weird thing to do. It takes getting used to. This is a new person, and you want to make sure they like you. So…have more sex! When you have more sex, y ou’ll learn what turns her on or what turns him on , what makes her wet or makes him supper hard, and what makes her or him groan in pleasure.  That’s how you get rid of sexual anxiety. Luckily in guide number 1 from the ALL Reads there are 365 Sex Positions for Having Sex a New Way Every...
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Taking the pressure off Premature Ejaculation; Talk with Your Partner About it

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  Here’s another thing I always recommend - talking to your partner about sex. I know this stuff can be embarrassing but keeping your anxiety about coming too soon to yourself will only make it worse. For one thing, maybe your partner doesn’t think that penetration needs to last any longer than it usually does. Talk about taking the pressure off! Talking about wanting to last longer in bed with your partner allows them to become part of the solution . They can help you figure out your triggers and stay away from specific moves or sensations until you’re both ready. They can also stretch foreplay out a little longer, offer up new positions , and assist with edging – which can increase the intensity for both of you. Also Amp Up the Foreplay Sometimes we need reminding that there is more to sex than penetration , and plenty of couples never have penis-in-anything sex and have lots of fun. Prolonging the foreplay and exploring each other’s pleasure buttons builds anticipation and dee...
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Slow Down and Limit Thrusting

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  Controlling your speed when having penetrative sex also helps you control how quickly you come. Faster thrusting tends to lead more quickly to an orgasm.  What I suggest is this simple penetration technique that can yield tremendous staying power for you, and yet put her on a continuous sexual high at the same time. This is what you do… Perform eight shallow thrusts about two to three inches deep, and then one deep thrust. Follow this up with seven shallow thrusts and then two deep ones; six shallow thrusts followed by three deep ones. You get the idea. Continue doing this until you are performing nine deep thrusting movements. Then repeat the entire sequence again. Why does this work so well? First, deep thrusts are the ones that bring your penis closest to orgasm, as the frenulum (the stringy thing in the "inverted v" under the glans) and shaft skin are stretched the most, causing greater arousal. Varying shallow and deep thrusts will help taper off the stimulation on t...
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The best time to have an orgasm is at the beginning of sex

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It has long been a topic of joking conversations and an envious revelation that women are capable of multiple orgasms in a small amount of time. But, the female brain, much like the male brain, needs some kind of respite and only has so many muscle control chemicals to release at any given time.  So, the first orgasm is always going to be the stronger one, marked by increased release. However, the second one is easier to achieve (due to the fact the brain has already produced the pleasure chemicals for use) and usually has a different emotional and personal feel to it. Even if a woman is not seeking two orgasms, having one before intercourse begins will make intercourse more pleasurable and increase the likelihood of an orgasm more focused on the pelvic floor if the second one occurs. Women who sometimes experience pain during intercourse are encouraged to have an orgasm before sexual entry. Giving her an orgasm though oral or manual stimulation dramatically increases the amount o...
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High Gear; Orgasmic foreplay

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Now we are going to step it up a notch and get into oral sex for completion of an orgasm, all of the previous techniques I have talked about will get your lady to the point where she is ready to experience penetration. I will always recommend using your fingers internally before anything else , using your fingers internally whilst using the techniques I’m going to tell you about with your tongue will bring your lady very close to orgasm and if not, will certainly get her totally ready for penetration with your cock.  I’m going to work from the lowest intensity techniques to the ones that are almost certain to bring your woman to orgasm. I’m also going to touch on how to try and make your woman squirt in your mouth , this will almost certainly take a few attempts and involves her understanding and cooperation before-hand so bear that in mind if this is your goal.  The first technique is to use one set of fingers on her clitoris, with the bump of her clitoris in between the c...
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